Pride continues!

On Thursday Argentina voted in favour of legalizing same-sex marriage nation wide, becoming the first Latin American country to do so.

Extremely contentious rival demonstrations were held outside of Congress in Buenos Aires, with pro-equal marriage demonstrators facing off against anti-equal marriage demonstrators, their respective ‘vigils’ lasting all night. The Roman Catholic Church, those bastions of what is good and right (ahem), waged an ardent and expensive campaign against passage of the law.

But after a 16-hour Senate debate, the vote was held after 4am and gays and lesbians won the same legal marriage rights and protections afforded to heterosexuals. (The law was already passed in the lower house, so once the Senate approved it and published it, the law became official.)

Buenos Aires has long been considered one of the most queer-friendly cities in South America and this new law will no doubt bring many gay and lesbian couples from throughout the region to Buenos Aires to marry. Uruguay and some states in Brazil and Mexico have legalized same-sex unions; in Mexico City gay marriage is legal; and in Colombia queer couples have inheritance and health insurance rights; but Argentina’s new nation-wide equal marriage law grants same-sex couples more rights than civil unions, such as adoption and inheritance rights.

Argentina’s President Cristina Fernandez has been a strong supporter of equal marriage; speaking about the Catholic Church’s campaign of hatred and discrimination, Fernandez said, “It’s very worrisome to hear words like ‘God’s war’ or ‘the devil’s project,’ things that recall the times of the Inquisition.”

Sen. Norma Morandini, a member of Fernandez’s party, compared the discrimination queers face to the oppression under Argentina’s past dictators: “What defines us is our humanity, and what runs against humanity is intolerance.”

Congratulations, Argentina!


Humankind — only two hours old

“…imagine that the earth—four thousand six hundred million years old—[were] a forty-six-year-old woman…. It had taken the whole of the Earth Woman’s life for the earth to become what it was. For the oceans to part. For the mountains to rise. The Earth Woman was eleven years old…when the first single-celled organisms appeared. The first animals, creatures like worms and jellyfish, appeared only when she was forty. She was over forty-five—just eight months ago—when dinosaurs roamed the earth. The whole of human civilization as we know it began only two hours ago in the Earth Woman’s life…. It was an awe-inspiring and humbling thought…that the whole of contemporary history, the World Wars, the War of Dreams, the Man on the Moon, science, literature, philosophy, the pursuit of knowledge—was no more than a blink of the Earth Woman’s eye.”        – Arundhati Roy, from The God of Small Things

I think about this quotation a lot. It truly is humbling. First of all, it puts the earth and our place on it into perspective. I have a feeling that if we as a people don’t stop our destruction of the earth, she’ll just boot us off and start all over again. She’s been here infinitely longer than humanity has been, and will likely be here long after we’re gone.

This quotation also brings me some small bit of comfort when I start thinking about the state of the world, with all its corruption, discord, conflict, intolerance, discrimination, oppression, violence, and war. I remind myself that humankind is just an infant, which is why people act infantile so much of the time. I remind myself of this when I think about the fact that people do not solve problems with grace, diplomacy, tact, compassion, and maturity, but with violence, vengeance, pettiness, pride, and jingoism.

The hatred, intolerance, and violence—will it end when humankind “grows up”? I wish I could live long enough to know the answer to this, but it won’t reveal itself until millions of years hence.

In the meantime, it’s a worthwhile pursuit for humanity to keep striving to be wise and mature beyond its years.

A blog about the blog

Hi readers,

Hello!Well this is new to me, the world of blogging. Here’s hoping I don’t embarrass myself.

A few words about the blog. First, the title. As paraphrased from our good friend Wikipedia: Cognitive dissonance is an uncomfortable feeling caused by holding two contradictory ideas simultaneously.  Dissonance normally occurs when a person perceives a logical inconsistency among his or her cognitions. The theory of cognitive dissonance proposes that people have a motivational drive to reduce dissonance by changing their attitudes, beliefs, and behaviours, or by justifying or rationalizing their attitudes, beliefs, and behaviours. Cognitive dissonance theory is one of the most influential and extensively studied theories in social psychology.

This blog will not focus on one specific topic. Oh, no. I am much too interested in the stuff of this world to limit myself. I will write about science and Skepticism, politics, culture and pop culture, humanity and sociology, the things that make up everyday life, and anything else that strikes my fancy. My hope is that with every new post will be the thrill of discovery. I will try to be engaging, interesting, intelligent, thought-provoking, and witty. I will try.

I am a grammar geek and a word nerd, but the nature of blogging dictates that the odd typo or mistake will creep in. Please alert me to these if you spot them so I can fix them. I am slightly anal-retentive.

I tend to write the way I speak, so be prepared for exclamation marks (gasp!), italics (did she say italics?), em dashes—yes, em dashes!, and parenthetical asides (see?). And finally, although I am a stickler and would feel comfortable in an Eats, Shoots and Leaves book club, I will not let go of the final comma before an “and.” You can pry the final-comma-before-an-and from my cold, dead hands.

And now a note on comments. If this blog should take off and people outside of my immediate circle of friends begin to read it, I will be a hard-ass about comments. I’m sure that from time to time I will say things that may incite controversy, but any bigotry whatsoever will not be tolerated in comments. Racist, sexist, or homophobic comments will be promptly deleted. As will general bone-headedness. I will use my own discretion. I am the boss of this blog, so don’t piss me off.

Finally, let’s have fun! Welcome all. If you’re reading these early posts, please show some love and share the joy to help my self-esteem. I hope that in time I will have tens of readers!